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Resources & FAQs

Answers to commonly asked questions and helpful tips and resources for your BLW journey

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Frequently Asked Questions

Find answers to commonly asked questions

Most babies are ready from about 6 months. This is when they can usually sit upright independently, have lost their tongue-thrust, show interest in food and have good head control. It is recommended to always consult with your health visitor before starting.

In the first few months of BLW, very little food may actually be consumed - don't worry! Remember - "Food before one is just for fun" - breast milk or formula still remains the primary source of nutrition. Let your baby self-regulate. By 12 months, solid foods will gradually become their main source of nutrition.

This is completely normal and actually important! Babies will learn through exploration and playing. They need to be able to touch, squish and investigate food to understand it. This sensory exploration helps them become comfortable with different textures and is a crucial part of learning to eat.

When done correctly with the appropriate foods and supervision, BLW is safe to practice. Studies show there is no increased risk of choking compared to traditional weaning. They key is understanding the difference between gagging (normal and protective) and choking (severe medical emergency), proper food preparation, and constant supervision.

Absolutely! Babies have strong gums that can mash soft food effectively. Teeth are not necessary for BLW. Most babies don't get their teeth until about 8-10 months or later. Make sure foods are soft enough to squish between your fingers before giving them to your baby.

Gagging is a normal and protective reflex that prevents choking. It's actually more common in babies doing BLW, which helps strengthen this protective mechanism. Babies typically gag less as they gain experience. If they do experience a gagging episode, remain calm and let your baby work through it - your calm response teaches them is is okay.

Current guidelines recommend introducing allergens early (around the 6 month mark) and often. Make sure to only introduce one new allergen at a time, and in small amounts. Watch for reactions for the next 3-5 days before introducing another. Offer these foods multiple times per week once they've been introduced.

Yes, but go by your baby's adjusted age (due date, not birth date) and developmental readiness. Premature babies sometimes need more time to develop the skills needed for BLW. Always consult your health visitor about timing and approach.

Communicate clearly about BLW principles and safety. Provide written guidelines about appropriate foods, sizes, and supervision. Consider sending pre-prepared foods. Some nurseries require purees - discuss your options with them. You can do BLW at home and purees at nursery.

The key is education and communication. Share research, videos, and resources with them. Take an infant CPR class together. Start slowly with simple, less scary foods. Let concerned family members observe supervised meals. Sometimes having your health visitor explain the approach helps gain support.

Not necessarily! You can share family foods with your baby (just hold the salt), which is more economical than buying special baby food. Batch cooking and freezing portions saves money. While some families buy special BLW products, they're not necessary - simple whole foods work perfectly.

This can vary. Some babies eat well from the start, others take months to get the hang of it. Most babies gradually increase intake between 8-10 months as their pincer grasp develops and they become more efficient eaters. By 12 months, most are eating significant amounts.

Yes, small amounts of water can be offered with meals from around 6 months. Use an open cup or straw cup rather than sippy cups. Water shouldn't replace breast milk or formula. A few ounces per day is sufficient in the first year.

Tips & Tricks

Some tips and tricks to help you on your journey

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Mess Management

  • Use a splat mat or an old sheet under the high chair
  • Try feeding baby in just a nappy during warmer weather
  • Keep a wet cloth or wipes handy for quick cleanup
  • Get a high chair with minimal crevices for easier cleaning
  • If you have a pet, let them help clean the floor
  • Take lots of photos - especially of the mess! You'll laugh later.
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Making Life Easier

  • Batch cook and freeze portions for busy days
  • Offer 'adult' leftovers from dinner (minus the salt)
  • Keep simple foods handy - banana, avocado, bread
  • Use a slow cooker for tender, baby-friendly meals
  • Prep veggies for the week on a sunday
  • Let them join family meals - eat together wherever possible
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Stay Motivated

  • Join online BLW communities for support
  • Document the journey with photos and videos
  • Celebrate the small wins - first taste, new textures, etc
  • Remember: progress isn't always linear - bad days can happen
  • Focus on exploration, not consumption
  • Trust your baby's natural eating instincts
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Problem Solving

  • If your baby seems uninterested, try different times of day
  • Vary presentation - same food but different shapes
  • Let your baby see you eating and enjoying food
  • Don't force or pressure anything - keep mealtimes positive
  • Some babies are cautious - respect their pace
  • If concerned about intake, consult you health visitor
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Developmental Milestones & Feeding

What to expect at different ages and stages

6 Months

Motor Skills

  • Sits upright with minimal support
  • Brings hands and objects to mouth
  • Shows interest in food
  • Uses palmar grasp (whole hand)

Feeding Progress

  • Explores food through touch and taste
  • May push food around more than eating
  • Gagging is common as they learn

7-8 Months

Motor Skills

  • Sits independently without support
  • Transfers objects from hand to hand
  • Begins a raking motion with finger
  • Better jaw strength develops

Feeding Progress

  • More food actually makes it into their mouth
  • Can bite off appropriate sized pieces
  • Beginning to chew

9-11 Months

Motor Skills

  • Pincer grasp develops (thumb & finger)
  • Can self feed with small pieces
  • Improved hand-eye coordination
  • Can drink from an open cup with help

Feeding Progress

  • Eats more efficiently
  • Handles a variety of textures well
  • May start showing food preferences

12+ Months

Motor Skills

  • Refined pincer grasp
  • Can use utensils (with lots of spilling)
  • Drinks from a cup more independently
  • Can handle most family foods

Feeding Progress

  • Eating substantial amounts
  • Solid foods now primary nutrition
  • Established part of family meals

When to Consult your Health Visitor

Signs that you should reach out to your healthcare provider

Feeding Concerns

  • Baby shows no interest in food after 7 months
  • Extreme gagging or vomiting at every meal
  • Baby refused to eat any solid foods by 9 months
  • Difficulty swallowing or signs of pain when eating
  • Significant weight loss or poor weight management

Developmental Concerns

  • Cannot sit upright independently by 8 months
  • Not bringing objects to their mouth by 7 months
  • Strong tongue thrust reflex persists past 7 months
  • Persistent choking episodes (not gagging)
  • Any concerns about development or feeding

Remember You health visitor is your partner in your baby's health. Never hesitate to ask questions or voice your concerns. it is always better to check in than worry alone

BLW Essentials Recommendations

Trusted products to make BLW easier. Links are affiliate - at no extra cost to you!

Munchkin Stay Put Baby Suction Bowl

Munchkin Stay Put Baby Suction Bowl

3 different-sized bowls with strong suction bases. Quick-release tabs for adults. Microwave/dishwasher safe, BPA-free. Prevents tipping during messy BLW meals. 6+ months.

£5-£12

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Munchkin Stay Put Divided Plates

Munchkin Stay Put Divided Plates

2 divided suction plates with strong bases. 3 compartments keep foods separate (protein/veg/carbs). Quick-release tabs, BPA-free, microwave/dishwasher safe. Perfect for 6+ month self-feeders.

£10-£12

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Munchkin White Hot Toddler & Baby Spoons

Munchkin White Hot Toddler & Baby Spoons

Colour-changing spoons turn white when food >43°C. Soft tips gentle on gums, long handles for high chair feeding. BPA-free, dishwasher-safe. Perfect safety spoon for weaning 3+ months.

£3-£5

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Ickle Bubba Flip Magic Fold Highchair

Ickle Bubba Flip Magic Fold Highchair

Space-saving highchair with one-hand fold (7cm slim!). 5-point harness, removable easy-clean tray, wipeable seat. From sitting up to 15kg. Perfect for small kitchens.

£50

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Long Sleeve Bibs

Long Sleeve Bibs

3-pack long-sleeved waterproof bibs with catch-all pockets. Full arm coverage catches flying food. Soft, adjustable ties, easy-wipe fabric. Fits 6-30 months. Machine washable.

£6-£8

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Vital Baby Nourish Store & Wean Food Pots

Vital Baby Nourish Store & Wean Food Pots

EarthSmart biodegradable pots with soft bases for easy food release. Leakproof, stackable, microwave/dishwasher safe. 60ml size ideal for early weaning purees. BPA-free, 4m+.

£5-£10

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