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Everything you need to know before starting BLW — from choking and gagging to allergens and safe food prep.

LOUD Gagging = normal & protective
QUIET Choking = act immediately
999 Always supervise meals

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Choking vs gagging — know the difference

Gagging is a normal, protective reflex that babies use as they learn to eat. It can look alarming, but it's a safety mechanism. Choking is different — and rare. Understanding the difference is the single most important thing you can do before starting BLW.

LOUD

Gagging

  • Baby is making noise — coughing, retching, or crying
  • Face may go red or eyes may water
  • Tongue may push forward
  • May vomit — this is fine and normal
  • Resolves on its own within seconds
QUIET

Choking

  • Silent or unable to make sounds
  • Cannot cough, cry, or breathe properly
  • Lips or gums may turn blue or pale
  • Face may go pale or grey
  • May lose consciousness

If baby is gagging

  • Stay calm — do not panic
  • Do not put your fingers in their mouth
  • Let baby work through it themselves
  • Offer calm reassurance with your voice
  • Continue the meal once resolved

If baby is choking — act immediately

  • Shout for help
  • Remove baby from high chair
  • Support chest and chin with one hand
  • Give 5 firm back blows — check after each
  • Call 999 if unsuccessful
  • Give up to 5 chest thrusts if needed

This is not a substitute for proper first aid training. We strongly recommend completing an infant CPR and choking course before you start weaning. The British Red Cross and St John Ambulance both offer excellent, accessible courses.

Emergency preparedness checklist

Go through this list before your baby's very first meal. Knowing you're prepared makes weaning calmer and more enjoyable for everyone.

Detailed safety guidance

Tap any section to expand it. Keep these open for reference as you get started.

How you prepare food matters as much as what you offer. A food that's perfectly safe when prepared correctly can become a serious hazard if it isn't.

What makes a food safe for BLW?

Soft & squishable

Can be squished flat between your thumb and finger with minimal effort. If you can't squish it, baby can't either.

Finger-sized strips

Long enough to grip in a fist with some sticking out the top — roughly the size of an adult finger.

Dissolves easily

Breaks down with saliva or gentle gum pressure. Soft-cooked veg, banana, and well-cooked pasta are ideal.

Not round or hard

Avoid round shapes and hard raw foods. Round objects can perfectly seal a baby's airway.

High-risk foods & how to make them safe

✕ As-is

Grapes & cherry tomatoes

Cut lengthways into quarters — their round shape can perfectly seal a baby's airway

✕ Whole

Whole nuts & peanuts

Crush or flake; spread nut butter thinly on toast rather than by the spoon

✕ Raw

Raw hard vegetables

Steam or roast carrot, apple, and celery until completely fork-tender before offering

✕ Round

Blueberries & small round fruits

Squish flat or cut in half for babies under 9 months

✕ Sliced

Hot dogs & sausages

Cut lengthways into thin strips rather than round slices — slices are a hazard shape

✕ Thick

Bread & nut butter together

Lightly toast bread and spread nut butter very thinly — thick spread can form sticky balls

Always avoid under 12 months

Honey

Risk of infant botulism — avoid in cooking too

Added salt & salty foods

Bacon, crisps, stock cubes — harmful to developing kidneys

Soft & blue cheeses

Brie, camembert, stilton — risk of listeria

Shark, swordfish & marlin

High mercury content — can affect the nervous system

Raw shellfish & fresh pâté

Risk of food poisoning — avoid entirely

Popcorn & marshmallows

Choking hazard — hard to control in the mouth

Always supervise

  • Stay within arm's reach at all times
  • Give your full attention during meals
  • No eating in the car or pushchair
  • Avoid distractions — put your phone down

Correct positioning

  • Baby sits fully upright in a high chair
  • Feet supported on a footrest or step
  • Never reclined or slouched
  • Secured with high chair straps

Let baby lead the pace

  • Never rush meals or pressure baby to eat
  • Allow time to chew and swallow fully
  • Watch for signs of fullness and stop
  • Never put food directly into their mouth

Temperature & environment

  • Test food temperature before every serving
  • Food should be lukewarm — never hot
  • Reduce noise and turn off screens
  • Eat together to model good habits

Baby's state

  • Fully alert and awake before eating
  • Not overtired or very distressed
  • A little hungry is ideal — not starving
  • Relaxed and in a positive mood

During meals

  • Stay calm if baby gags — it is normal
  • Do not put fingers in baby's mouth
  • Keep portions small — offer more if needed
  • Remove toys from the tray during mealtimes

Cooling & refrigerating

  • Cool hot food within 1–2 hours
  • Store in a covered container in the fridge
  • Use refrigerated food within 24 hours
  • Keep fridge below 5°C

Freezing

  • Freeze portions for up to 3 months
  • Use ice cube trays and label with the date
  • Defrost in the fridge overnight
  • Never defrost on the worktop

Reheating

  • Reheat once only — never reheat twice
  • Heat until piping hot all the way through
  • Cool to lukewarm before serving
  • Stir well to eliminate hot spots

Leftovers & serving

  • Decant from jars or pouches into a bowl before serving
  • Discard leftovers after a meal — saliva contaminates them
  • Don't refreeze food that has been defrosted
  • When in doubt, throw it out
When in doubt, throw it out. It is always safer to prepare a fresh portion than to risk food that may have spoiled.
1

Introduce one at a time

Introduce each allergen separately in a small amount. Wait 2–3 days before introducing the next so you can identify any reaction.

2

Introduce early

Current evidence (including the LEAP study) suggests introducing allergens from around 6 months — not delaying — may actually reduce allergy risk.

3

Keep offering regularly

Once safely introduced, continue including the allergen in your baby's diet regularly. Consistent exposure helps prevent sensitisation over time.

Peanuts Tree nuts Dairy Eggs Fish Shellfish Molluscs Soy Wheat (gluten) Sesame Mustard Celery Sulphites Lupin

Always introduce allergens at home, during the day, when your GP surgery is open. After introducing a new allergen, watch for any of these signs:

Diarrhoea or vomiting Itchy skin or a rash Wheezing or shortness of breath Swollen lips, tongue, or throat Itchy throat or tongue Runny or blocked nose Sore, red, or itchy eyes A persistent cough

Anaphylaxis: In rare cases a food can cause a life-threatening reaction — sudden swelling of lips or throat, difficulty breathing, or collapse. Call 999 immediately. Do not wait. Visit the NHS food allergy page →

If you suspect a food allergy — stop giving that food and speak to your GP or health visitor as soon as possible. Do not attempt to reintroduce it without medical guidance.

Track allergens & milestones safely

Log every allergen introduction, track reactions, and record food milestones — all in one safe place with the Munch Sprouts app.